Parent Coaches for Neurodivergent Children
You’re probably here because parenting your neurodivergent child feels like balancing a thousand invisible needs - while carrying your own
When everything feels high stakes and no option feels easy, exhaustion sets in. You’re carrying too much alone-and you’re ready for a new way forward.
At DEN, we help you build nervous system tools for you and your child. One rooted in
connection, co-regulation, and
realistic strategies that meet your family where you are.
Parenting a neurodivergent child shouldn’t feel this hard—but it does.
You’re exhausted trying to stay calm while managing anxiety or anger, navigating transitions, and juggling everyone’s needs—including your own.
The endless advice from experts & social media research rabbit holes makes you second-guess yourself instead of trusting your intuition.
It feels like no one truly understands how hard it is to advocate for your child & parenting choices while still holding everything else.
The world needs more affirming care and access to resources for neurodivergent families and we're here to change that.
Stop feeling stuck and start finding support that works.
DEN gives parents support to explore what works for your family without the pressure to get it perfect. You’ll try new strategies, let go of what doesn’t feel right, and discover tools that align with your unique parenting journey all while feeling supported every step of the way.
WELCOME TO THE SPACE THAT FINALLY GETS YOU
We’re Tina & Vanessa— Parent Coaches Walking This Path With You.
Supporting families of Autistic and ADHD kids with connection, curiosity, and compassion.
We help the entire family find practical nervous system regulation tools.
Our approach comes from our Pediatric Occupational Therapy background, lived experience, and from our work with thousands of families.
Vanessa is the problem-solver who's happiest when she's thinking outside the box, whether it's creating hands-on activities for emotional and sensory regulation or hosting community events for neurodivergent tweens and teens.
And Tina? She's the sports enthusiast and lifelong gymnast who blended her love of sports into the community program called Buddyball, which brings together families of kids with unique abilities to enjoy sports with peers.
The universe brought us together to create this meaningful space for parents of neurodivergent children, and we couldn’t be more happy to have you here.
Our work has helped hundreds parents and families transform difficult routines into smoother routines, turning emotional struggles into moments of connection.
From founding the first OT program for a school district to establishing trauma-informed private practices, we’ve spent our careers understanding and raising neurodivergent children and their families.
We’ve learned that parenting isn’t about perfection. We’ve both witnessed parents (including ourselves) feel overwhelmed, lose patience, and make mistakes.
Our biggest lesson?
Co-regulation does not mean calm.
When everything feels too loud, too fast, and too much as a parent of an Autistic or ADHD child, you don’t need another strategy.
You need someone who sees you.
At DEN, we help you meet yourself with the same compassion you show your child.
Because the real work of co-regulation and emotional regulation starts with us as adults—and it doesn’t have to be done alone.
We believe it’s important to:
- Meet people where they’re at
- Know there is no one “right path”
- Follow your intuition
Fun facts about us :)
When we’re not busy creating resources for DEN, Vanessa can be found in the gym, traveling, or taking a walk with her husky, while Tina might be taking a break from her 6 kids and chilling out on her boat. And if you catch us on a Friday, we’ll be laughing about our early OT days sitting in the Florida sunshine and plotting our next big adventure in supporting families!
-TINA-
“You bless the lives of every child you work with. As a parent, I cannot put into words the depths of love and respect I have for you. Watching you help my children, teaching me how to help them, I will forever be grateful to you. You are a blessing to our family. I’m so proud of the hard work, dedication, and determination you exude from every fiber of your being. You are a joy! We love you!”
-ASHLEY-
“You are such a light to so many and one of the easiest people to connect with and talk to. We need more of you in this world! Thank YOU for your love, your dedication, and your passion for more. We love you!”
-AMBER-
“Our family has been so incredibly blessed to have you in our lives. Thank you so much for being the incredibly talented, smart, and beautiful person you are. We truly appreciate you!”
